I didn't post anything for about six month after my first post
got lots of abuse for my first post, cried about it for 6 months, lurked a bit, and then slotted into doing my best to win approval.
( drbroon a poor wee monkey stole his face, Mon 26 Nov 2007, 18:45, archived)

That's the ticket.
Put those negative feelings in a bottle, and if you think that they might spill out of the top then you need to really ram that cork in there and push it down until you start sweating blood. Works for me, anyway.
( The Hedgehog From Hell 's days are numbered, Mon 26 Nov 2007, 18:48, archived)