Well from your perspective I guess sex with a woman is something to pity.

( Amadeus I care not for your thoughts on grammer, Tue 11 Sep 2012, 12:40, Reply)

I guess sex with a woman as a handsome chap/non-fatty, having to pretend to have lost one's virginity
( Tab Hunter You used to call me sadness...., Tue 11 Sep 2012, 12:52, Reply)