nah
we had a good laugh about it afterwards, one of the turn ons for the wife, was the fact I was getting it on with another woman, and enjoying it (or so she assumed). Amongst other things. You'd be surprised the deep fantasies most people have if you're willing to take the time to explore.

it's just about listening, there's no great mystery to it

I also love how you seem to know more about our relationship than we do though.
also:
www.b3ta.com/questions/bedroomdisasters/post1253584
( Clay hopes this bit is long enough to promote my websi, Thu 23 Jun 2011, 22:16, 2 replies)

Dont worry - many of them are single and/or insecure and likely to remain that way. You do your own thing and dont pay any attention to the judges. Good story btw.
( enoughblueskyforsailorstrousers, Thu 23 Jun 2011, 22:22, closed)

What you think you're the 1st & only b3tan to have swung?
The only b3tan to have seen a wife/girlfriend getting it from a stranger while some strange woman does you?
I like your hubris.
(Misery McUglywife an attention seeking sociopathic fuckstain., Thu 23 Jun 2011, 22:57, closed)

pffft, why do you assume I think that?
if you like my hubris, you'll love my hummus.

get a grip man, stop taking it so damn serious. chill :)
( Clay hopes this bit is long enough to promote my websi, Sat 25 Jun 2011, 15:39, closed)

Have you thought that maybe you didn't enjoy the experience
that much because you didn't really like seeing your missus getting fucked by some strange bloke & really getting off on it? And not just putting it down to "boredom" (which to me seems as tho your externalising your reason for not enjoying - just my h.o.). Unless you are the type who regularly enjoys seeing their partner getting fucked by someonelse and genuinely gets off on it (trust me - I've known a few & from your post and replies that doesn't seem the case) then jealousy is a normal reaction in that situation and could manifest itself in all kinds of ways.
Could I have some chilli in the hoummus and some of those baked pita biscuits thingies, please. ;-)
(Misery McUglywife an attention seeking sociopathic fuckstain., Sun 26 Jun 2011, 23:18, closed)