But,
Because this is B3ta (and someone has to lower the tone...)

Do you realise that, statisticaly speaking, at least 50% of the people involved in rape really enjoy it? And for gang rape, it's even higher?

And can we please stop using the word "rape". My preferred term is:

"Unexpected sexual encounter"

Time to back-pedal

But to be honest, as a male, I really,really don't understand sex and violence. I understand sex (at least what presses my buttons) and I understand violence (to be used as a last resort but, when used, put the bastards down as hard and as fast as possible). But I really can't associate the two. Which is probably why I don't get the whole BSDM thing.

I've been in a fair amount of fights and I've never once been sexually aroused if I won. Even when I won, I get exactly the same reaction. Mouth goes dry, knees start to shake followed by my whole body shaking and then I often throw up.

For me, sex and violence are not complete opposites - they're not even in the same ball-park. I also think that girl's who liked to be spanked are deeply weird.

But that's just me...

Cheers
( Legless Mister Stabby - shanks for the memory, Tue 20 May 2008, 13:45, Reply)