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This is a normal post Calm down, use your indoor voice.
Quote from the above "Sometimes victim blaming is justified."

I disagree in this case.

Whether it's a fallout from a messy breakup or a deliberate attempt at blackmail of some naive person on the internet who thinks they've met someone nice online.

It's a cuntish thing to do and like a lot of cuntish things is against the law for the very real reason that it causes real harm to others. Just look at the teens that have killed themselves over this sort of thing.

But thank you for pulling yourself away from facebook to join in.
 (I helped save b3ta! Cerebus Sticky! Sticky! Stick! Stick!, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 13:34, , Reply)
This is a normal post I never said sharing the images was justified. I said blaming the victim was justified to some degree.
Let me put it another way:

You can't blame a rape victim for being raped. The only way to guarantee that you won't be raped is to permanently avoid absolutely all human contact. We're not clairvoyant, so we can't assume we're safe at all times.
It's unreasonable to avoid all humans just to avoid being raped.

You can blame a victim of 'revenge porn' to some degree (if the pictures were made consensually), because they helped create the pictures. If they didn't take the pictures at all, they would never exist and there would be no chance of those pictures becoming public.
It's not unreasonable to avoid making images of your rude bits if you're at all worried about unauthorised eyes seeing them.
 (Huw Edwards #notalljews, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 14:14, , Reply)
This is a normal post Well consents the key here
You consent to make the picture but unless you consent to have that picture share all over the internet on wank sites or used as blackmail I don't think you can be blamed. You could be called naive certainly but not blamed. You did not consent to the action.

I add the blackmail thing here because it's a popular scam at the moment with organised criminals befriending teenage boys and girls and getting them to take photos. Then blackmailing them.

Anyhoo, fuckit I need to work.
 (I helped save b3ta! Cerebus Sticky! Sticky! Stick! Stick!, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 14:32, , Reply)