Weird
I used to go out with a girl and we had a long relationship (5+ years) but things seemed to follow a cycle of everything would be ok for 6 months then something would happen and it would all go tits up with on eor the other of us wanting to finish.

It got to the point where I was no longer happy and decided that I no longer wanted to live my life that way and that I deserve to be with someone I'm happy with none of the mood swings or accusation or lack of trust (admittedly I was no angel but she took things from my past that she demanded to know about and then would use them as reasons not to trust me).

So I decided to finish things and started speaking about what was going on and why I wasn't happy and used reasons that basically said 'I can't live like this, I've had enough after 5 years and it's not about you, it's me that's the problem'

Only problem was that when I was giving her reasons for finishing it was more like 'It's not me, it's you' and after much tears and talking and promises that she'd change (why should you change for someone? It's not fair on either party and isn't the true you) we decided to finish things.

Although things did work out as on the back of that I met the current Miss FucKarma and helped her into her into her new flat the other week and for soemthiing that usually is quite stressful (and seeing as we've been going out for about 3-4 months) we did surprisingly well!

So I guess all happens for a reason
(Fuckarma was masturbating into your handbag, Fri 6 Jun 2008, 11:54, Reply)