What's the hardest you've tried to get dumped?Groovypoodle writes, "My mate once told his girlfriend that he didn't think it was working only for her to laugh and tell him he was hilarious. Saying she was 'too weird' and 'slightly violent' and that he didn't like her was equally hilarious. Ripping off her wing mirror, throwing it through the windscreen
and storming off in a huff merely generated an apology from her a week later..."
Just how hard have you had to work to get someone to take the hint and stay dumped?
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chthonic, Thu 5 Jun 2008, 10:33)
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I know this one.I used to get this feeling with my old girlfriend. I enjoyed the time we spent together, everything was fun fun fun but every time she mentioned meeting up again, or every time she called I got this sinking feeling. I took it to be my innate fear of commitment rearing its ugly head. However I'm not really one of those people who think constantly pushing yourself will make you better, if I don't like commitment I don't like commitment, so I broke up with her.
This made me very happy, suddenly I was free to sit in my pants and do nothing all day, or go out and do something I wanted to do without reference to anyone else (even though we liked the same things, just having to consult someone else feels restrictive...even if they agree with you). I'm sure at some point I'll find someone it doesn't feel scary to get serious with, or I'll get over it as I grow older, but for now it feels good.
(, Mon 9 Jun 2008, 16:44, Reply)
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