Just cut contact with him completely.
He's an adult and if you haven't been able to fix him yet then I doubt you will. You need to live a happy and peaceful life without worrying about him. My family cut all contacts with one of my sisters a long time ago as she was causing us all unhappiness. She wasn't as bad as your brother but bad enough that we had to leave her to her own devices. We're now all in contact again as she seems to have changed for the better but we're still taking it slow in building bridges.
( girlinthehole, Sat 27 Dec 2008, 19:10, 1 reply)

ideal but difficult
as my daughter still likes to see him, she's not really quite old enough to fully understand although that time is coming when I may tell her what's happened. She's sensible and intelligent enough to make her own decisions, and I'm sure she will once I give her the talk!
(randomstupidname would really like this signature field to be bigge, Sat 27 Dec 2008, 23:46, closed)