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# i'm.... not actually sure what you're getting at
(, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:07, archived)
# Just that I worry that people have burning love now, but don't really think about how it works out in the future.
You know, people even say 'I love you' as if the term has a universal meaning. Then as time goes on it's 'I love you but' or 'I thought you loved me' because people never really about how their exact feelings or ambitions or what the future might hold or whatever.

I don't know, I just worry about people. People don't talk enough.
(, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:11, archived)
# ahhh ok gotcha
well i kinda think though, that when you say 'i love you' it doesnt mean in like a universal sense, it's more an expression of that one little moment there.

like, it's that hot bubbling feeling you get in your chest bursting out your mouth.

i dont think you can ever really say anything in an Absolute sense, because you never know what's going to happen. the person you love might go mental and change completely. but then, that person that you loved back then kinda doesnt exist anymore.
(, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:20, archived)
# Well then you say that you want to spend your time with the person they are now, you say you want to have 'days like these' forever but don't know what the future would bring.
There may not be any absolute terms, but there are a lot of terms to be had and the more you use the closer to a true expression you get.

Maybe apart from the seperation she was just giving you an excuse to seek company, try new things, try BDSM, try lovers, try men (and that's not so much a comment on the fact that you write love poetry as it is that everyone seems to be bisexual these days). Basically what I'm saying is, maybe she wants me to come round to your house and have anal sex with you, which you will enjoy, WHICH I WILL MAKE YOU ENJOY.

Or failing that we should do some kind of writing-drawing collaborative thing.
(, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:28, archived)
# well there is that
we're never going to know if we're right for each other if we dont try other things.
i dont think anyones ever really 100% certain about anything, unless they're deluding themselves, because everyone has self-doubt.
which kinda shatters the romantic idea that love is all heady and passionate and every particle of your being is a big heap of 'YES!'
but hey. this is reality.

also... a writing/drawing collaborative thingy? now i'm intrigued. i DO have some ideas that were built on a collaberative basis. gaz me you curious thing (that is not a come-on, honestly)
(, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:52, archived)