Not to sound patronizing here
But that's fine. You're successful at that, and that's great. What I'm trying to get at is that if you were trying to do all that and kept failing repeatedly, simply because an ideal that said "you should be able to do such things" kept telling you to do so, and you kept trying and failing.

I'm trying to avoid being patronizing here, and it's bloody hard when it's only written text.
(Ghost Atreides enjoying incontestable health benefits on, Mon 28 Dec 2009, 1:17, 1 reply)

Its late
Ive imbibed much vodka and you've lost me

I'd fail at being a feminist or a lesbian if that helps ;)
(insomniac-surfer oh go on then, just this once, Mon 28 Dec 2009, 1:22, closed)