"You're doing it wrong"Chthonic confesses: "Only last year did I discover why the lids of things in tubes have a recessed pointy bit built into them." Tell us about the facepalm moment when you realised you were doing something wrong.
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Scaryduck LIKES EGG, Thu 15 Jul 2010, 13:23)
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ouchRecognised some of my past exploits a bit too much there.
Happily, I also recognised the uncapitalised nice guy with my current GF, especially early on. I was actually a little bit unimpressed on the first few dates, but had nothing else going on so stuck with it, just to see what might happen. We're moving in together next month.
So my advice to the OP is: don't turn anyone down until you've had at least three or four dates with them. You may think you're exercising some kind of quality control, because of some idea in your head about what Miss Right should look/be like. In fact, you're just limiting your options. You may even be doing this to yourself, subconsciously, because at some level you don't deserve to be happy.
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shinyshinyscalp less a man, more a way of life, Tue 20 Jul 2010, 13:38,
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