Well that was a joke.I'm not sure I see the fuck everyone else and do your own little thing point, that's what everyone does to some extent, in varying degrees. Equality and fairness are hard things to maintain even if you want to, especially given that most the behaviour in relationship and friendships is subconscious.
Maybe I somehow found a less difficult to engage with you when you were depressed, maybe not, I certainly didn't actively goad your depression when I spoke to you. But after being personally affected by the kind of change of minds before, then I'm inevitably going to point out what I feel is hypocritical or whatever, and I don't make any excuses for that fact - i'm still a person.
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Maybe I somehow found a less difficult to engage with you when you were depressed, maybe not, I certainly didn't actively goad your depression when I spoke to you. But after being personally affected by the kind of change of minds before, then I'm inevitably going to point out what I feel is hypocritical or whatever, and I don't make any excuses for that fact - i'm still a person.