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This is a normal post Well, don't let people take pictures of you naked unless you're willing to accept the possibility they'll appear on the Interwebs.
Sometimes victim blaming is justified.

My girlfriend has plenty pictures of me doing naughty things. I'm pretty confident that they'll stay private. But I took them in the knowledge that there's always a possibility they might get unleashed into the wild, either deliberately or accidentally.

If you don't consider the consequences, maybe having your rude bits displayed on the Internet might be a little life lesson.
 (Huw Edwards #notalljews, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 11:38, , Reply)
This is a normal post That assumes that all such photos/videos are consented to
But assuming consent, you're spot on.
 (I helped save b3ta! DinivanX Has stinging piss after drinking Pact Coffee, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 11:42, , Reply)
This is a normal post Yeah, consensual.

(Huw Edwards #notalljews, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 12:11, , Reply)
This is a normal post Then there is no such thing as privacy anymore?
Two people cannot decided to do something without haven't to accept it may be made public?

That a person is justified in releasing revenge porn in order to hurt another human being?

Grim.
 (I helped save b3ta! Cerebus Sticky! Sticky! Stick! Stick!, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 12:01, , Reply)
This is a normal post I'm not saying it's justified.
If you release intimate pictures/videos of somebody to the public without their consent, then you're an absolute cunt. But I still think it's reasonable to assume that it's a potential outcome before making them in the first place and making your decision based on that.
 (Huw Edwards #notalljews, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 12:10, , Reply)
This is a normal post Well yes you know it's a risk but you don't blame the victim if it happens.
Start doing that and you're going down a very slippery slope.
 (I helped save b3ta! Cerebus Sticky! Sticky! Stick! Stick!, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 12:12, , Reply)
This is a normal post "If you weren't prepared for the public to see your tits, you shouldn't have taken a photo of them and sent it to someone."
Is a far cry from: "Well, if you didn't wear that revealing top, you wouldn't have been raped."
 (Huw Edwards #notalljews, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 13:12, , Reply)
This is a normal post Who are you quoting?

(I helped save b3ta! Cerebus Sticky! Sticky! Stick! Stick!, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 13:15, , Reply)
This is a normal post 'Them'

(Huw Edwards #notalljews, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 13:31, , Reply)
This is a normal post Me. When I raped him

(I helped save b3ta! stuj (^(^;;^)^) GO TEAM SPIDERS!(^(^;;^)^), Fri 17 Mar 2017, 13:37, , Reply)
This is a normal post That's the last time he posted a photo of my tits.

(I helped save b3ta! stuj (^(^;;^)^) GO TEAM SPIDERS!(^(^;;^)^), Fri 17 Mar 2017, 13:38, , Reply)
This is a normal post Well it's you're own fault for wearing such a smashing blouse.

(I helped save b3ta! Cerebus Sticky! Sticky! Stick! Stick!, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 13:57, , Reply)
This is a normal post It was rather fetching.
But it's not like i knew it would go all see-through when I 'accidentally' spilled water on it.
 (I helped save b3ta! stuj (^(^;;^)^) GO TEAM SPIDERS!(^(^;;^)^), Fri 17 Mar 2017, 13:59, , Reply)
This is a normal post "That a person is justified in releasing revenge porn in order to hurt another human being?"
....the FUCK are you talking about? Who said that?

It's as it always was: Sometimes your trust is betrayed by those you hold most dear.
The internet, however, is an extremely quick & effective new means of disseminating information.
 (I helped save b3ta! Tab Hunter Make this useless process end and so, begin again, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 13:19, , Reply)
This is a normal post Calm down, use your indoor voice.
Quote from the above "Sometimes victim blaming is justified."

I disagree in this case.

Whether it's a fallout from a messy breakup or a deliberate attempt at blackmail of some naive person on the internet who thinks they've met someone nice online.

It's a cuntish thing to do and like a lot of cuntish things is against the law for the very real reason that it causes real harm to others. Just look at the teens that have killed themselves over this sort of thing.

But thank you for pulling yourself away from facebook to join in.
 (I helped save b3ta! Cerebus Sticky! Sticky! Stick! Stick!, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 13:34, , Reply)
This is a normal post I never said sharing the images was justified. I said blaming the victim was justified to some degree.
Let me put it another way:

You can't blame a rape victim for being raped. The only way to guarantee that you won't be raped is to permanently avoid absolutely all human contact. We're not clairvoyant, so we can't assume we're safe at all times.
It's unreasonable to avoid all humans just to avoid being raped.

You can blame a victim of 'revenge porn' to some degree (if the pictures were made consensually), because they helped create the pictures. If they didn't take the pictures at all, they would never exist and there would be no chance of those pictures becoming public.
It's not unreasonable to avoid making images of your rude bits if you're at all worried about unauthorised eyes seeing them.
 (Huw Edwards #notalljews, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 14:14, , Reply)
This is a normal post Well consents the key here
You consent to make the picture but unless you consent to have that picture share all over the internet on wank sites or used as blackmail I don't think you can be blamed. You could be called naive certainly but not blamed. You did not consent to the action.

I add the blackmail thing here because it's a popular scam at the moment with organised criminals befriending teenage boys and girls and getting them to take photos. Then blackmailing them.

Anyhoo, fuckit I need to work.
 (I helped save b3ta! Cerebus Sticky! Sticky! Stick! Stick!, Fri 17 Mar 2017, 14:32, , Reply)