Don't encourage him
He ought to be shagging about like a field rabbit, but he has this compulsion to settle down with the woman of his dreams.
( The Disappointed Caravanner of the year, Sun 27 May 2012, 21:01, 3 replies, latest was 12 years ago)

Give him a few days to grieve TD.
He's only a young 'un.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Sun 27 May 2012, 21:02, Reply)

But that's not me, TD!
I like spending time with girls. Hanging out, cuddling, and making each other smile. That's me. That's who I am. She fills all that criteria. I'm not just letting it slide.
(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Sun 27 May 2012, 21:03, Reply)

OK - there's no end of ways that you'll learn

( The Disappointed Caravanner of the year, Sun 27 May 2012, 21:05, Reply)

I've never felt any need to do the former
and the latter I would like very much, and would have liked very much five years ago too. It's hardly fair to judge him because he's hurting.
(berk, Sun 27 May 2012, 21:07, Reply)

Wow!
You want to settle down with a woman. berk, you've changed.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Sun 27 May 2012, 21:08, Reply)

Maybe I'm projecting my student morality onto Barry
But I did what I could and moved on.

I've met Barry - top bloke - and I just think he could do what he wants and not be dragged down by conventional wisdom.
( The Disappointed Caravanner of the year, Sun 27 May 2012, 21:12, Reply)