being overly nice the way you describeis to your own detriment. you yourself have said your friends stop you stepping back for them, they recognise that they don't need you to help them, and hell, they probably don't want you to either. But despite all this, you say you still put other people first even when it really hurts because they're 'more important'.
That my friend, is insecurity. work on it.
(That my friend, is insecurity. work on it.
.spanky is singing "PEANUTS!",
Sat 21 Aug 2004, 2:16,
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