1: Wait until the second date for 'relations?'
2: practice, a lot...
3: accept the fact that you may suffer a 'mild loss of sensation' and use it to your advantage!
3 is my preference, I'd say more but I'm too much of a gent. ;-)
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JustHere4Coffee remembers when all o' this were car parks,
Tue 14 Jan 2003, 12:05,
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