This is where you need tough love.
Any attempt to shield him from his own consequences will only serve, in the long-run, to enable him in his addiction. Be a friend and supportive but set appropriate, healthy boundaries that will cause him to seek help.
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gronkpan @vomitinglarry.bsky.social,
Tue 4 Sep 2007, 5:13,
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and I quote:
"Please, Sandi, do let me know the outcome. I've taken quite the liking to your son already. I was almost his age when I got sober myself. What a wonderful road he has ahead of him!"
this guy really does care doesn't he
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Slartibartfast. Is currently ignoring: Slartibartfast,
Tue 4 Sep 2007, 5:17,
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