I can't remember who said it now, but it's the best explanation I've seen so far:
'There is a line, but you won't know where it is until you cross it'.
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gronkpan @vomitinglarry.bsky.social,
Tue 19 Feb 2008, 22:08,
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Haha
Yep I learnt that the hard way. :P
One of my favourite quotes is "you have to be cruel to be funny"
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Scarf_Ace got my licenece,
Tue 19 Feb 2008, 22:12,
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