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# I think being a woman makes it easier
loathe as I am to perpetuate stereotypes. I can order men around qutie happily, and have indulged in torture and other things before (of which I shall not go into here) but there's nothng and I mean NOTHING that I like more that being held down and forced to be silent as the grave.

This is what prompted me to start writing the book (The 21st Century Guide to Sexual Deviancy).
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:13, archived)
# i think the exchange of power works better male to female,
theres almost an air of humiliation play to a female dom in my opinion
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:15, archived)
# Usually, yes.
I don't particularly like to humiliate, just force, and when I was on the scene most of the guys I encountered were all about the shame factor.
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:16, archived)
# i dont get that personally, but thats just not my kink i guess
my problem is i'm only eighteen so finding people who are willing to be open about their Kinks is hard,
but in my experience lots of young ladies are willing to submit but not many to dominate.
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:19, archived)
# I'm 23, but I was on the scene from 16- 20.
On and off.

Generally I found it was older men who were willing to dominate- I suggest you find an older woman.
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:21, archived)
# i wouldnt mind an older woman tbh, finding one would be harder but still
hmmmm... thats not a bad idea you know
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:23, archived)
# Is there a Bingo hall near you?
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:24, archived)
# I saw that
and fucking guffawed. Well done.
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:36, archived)
# I'm only going on logic.
I've never been dominated by a woman- if I'm with a woman (or should I say when I was) I was always the dominant party.
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:24, archived)
# im very much a Dom
being dominated by a woman, by golly! i say! how demeaning :P
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:28, archived)
# I actually know a disturbing amount
about what the two of you are talking about.

The reason I haven't engage in any of this is because I would find it absolutely impossible to balance up with the rest of my personality.
I don't know how everyone else is, but I fear becoming an unbalanced duality.
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:30, archived)
# then become a really dominating person :P
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:31, archived)
# I wasn't specifically talking about either domination or submission
Just BDSM and the kind of free sex (yes I know it really makes me sound like I don't know what the fuck i'm on about) movement in general.
Going through all kinds of experiences just doesn't gel with the rest of me, which is essentially an awful characiture of a PG Wodehouse character.

I imagine if I did get down to doing the stuff, while it's all well and good in the build and during. As soon as i'd climaxed, i'd just have a mental image of Jeeves staring at me and shaking his head.

*shudder*
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:35, archived)
# stop confusing me.
do you take it up the arse or not? ;)
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:37, archived)
# I take it with milk and two sugars, thank you very much.
Actually that sound worse.
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:38, archived)
# well thats a very interesting way of looking at it
jeeves is....interesting...
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:47, archived)
# Well alright then.
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:35, archived)
# no penetration
and I'm all yours
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:22, archived)
# My least favourite part of it.
I don't want to bum boys, particularly. But they all bloody wanted me to.
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:23, archived)
# Yeah, confuses me.
I'm all for being shouted at and being made to be the bitch but please. It's like lego. This bit goes in here, just don't break it.
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:28, archived)
# I have no problems with anal sex
and certainly no problems with others who like to bum boys but really, what am I going to get out of it? I haven't got a penis.

Sex with women is entirely different, of course. I reserve the right to be totally nonsensical.
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:30, archived)
# Well it's a humilation/ego/social roles type thing isn't it?
Realistically you'll unlikely to get any physical sensation, even with the use of the appropriate adaptors.
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:32, archived)
# Fuck me.
Are you for hire? Can accommodate. Manchester and surrounding area.
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:35, archived)
# Hah, my ex was from Stockport
his mum walked in on us mid sesh (his second ever, I do believe as I'd nicked his viginity earlier) and fucking made me get up and leave his bedroom.
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:36, archived)
# aww.
did you need to make dinner? ;)
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:39, archived)
# Hahaha no
but I did need to leave her little precious alone.

He had a very big willy for a 16 year old.
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:43, archived)
# all the boys want to be bummed by captain wow!
(, Sun 24 Feb 2008, 23:29, archived)