I would have thought that
'If you love me' would be 'Si tu m'aime', where tu (you) is the subject and the reflexive pronoun me (abbreviated to m') is the object. Otherwise its 'If I love you' (Si je t'aime, which makes more grammatical sense than si te j'aime).
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Mr._Pickles,
Thu 4 Jun 2009, 19:30,
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