It's an abusive relationship writ large.
If you never get the chance to think differently, it is easier to accept the abuse as normal.
On the subject of abusive relationships, Elon gets a taste of reality:-
www.nbcnews.com/tech/internet/chappelle-elon-musk-dave-video-audience-members-boo-rcna61330
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