My advice for what it's worth - and feel free to ignore it!
Is to withdraw a little from him for two reasons...

1. You need to protect yourself just in case he decides that he doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore.

2. More importantly it really sounds as if you are giving so much of yourself which is wonderful and giving of you...but he's not reciprocating, he's not giving back. Maybe the amount of affection you're lavishing upon him is just too much for him right now.
So many men and women fall constantly for people who treat them badly and behave badly - I'm not saying you're one of these, but maybe he *is*....So it could be that he places less importance upon you treating him well because to his mind that's what 'weaker' people do.

You're running after him and maybe he needs to be the one doing the running.

Take care of yourself, protect yourself.

If he's worth it he'll see that and he'll want to protect you.

Good luck.
( chickenlady b3ta's very own Elizabeth Taylor, Sun 29 Jun 2008, 21:42, Reply)