Thank you for saving me the effort.
I had to go run some errands today, otherwise I would have provided the explanation that you did. I consider Dan Savage to be one of the most insightful columnists I've ever read. His advice on relationships, aside from the sexual components, has always been spot-on in my estimation. (His sexual recommendations also sound about right to me, but I'm not enough of an expert to comment intelligently on that.) The link that ladydyani provides is a good one. Unfortunately it doesn't say much about his "It Gets Better" campaign, which is something that I found to be very admirable.

Anyway, yes, that's where "santorum" comes from.
( The Resident Loon Not a demographic. Do not measure., Fri 8 Jul 2011, 20:19, Reply)