First!
Clearly, my sense of timing just keeps on getting better. I've mostly been the dumpee. Once or twice unexpected, once via a cringe-worthy Dear John letter accusing me of being bisexual, and once by my fiancee who ripped out my heart, set it on fire and pissed on it. Then again, that's all water under the bridge though.

But the one with the most drama? That'll be the New Year's Eve just gone. As is traditional, I guess. As a side note, I think this one was mutual, but I'm still not sure as to whether she thinks so as well, but to be honest, it doesn't really matter. Something for the "life's too short" file.

The warning signs really should have been apparent when we first started dating. I'd nipped to the bar for a second, and came back to find her snogging some other bloke who later nutted me for my trouble. She apologised for this, and then proceeded to have an argument with me, before coming back to mine. I was however fucking desperate, and well, you get the idea.

We saw each other a few times, sometimes good, sometimes very bad. Most recently she started using me as a verbal punching bag to take all her frustrations out on. I'll put up with this once or twice, but three times, no thanks. Which is where it came to a head on New Year's Eve. Apparently, she was worried she was pregnant. Oh, and it wasn't mine. As we weren't really official, it didn't bother me that much. Apparently, this was the wrong attitude to take. I'm guessing she doesn't appreciate the cold logic of "It doesn't matter, I'll do the right thing whatever". It then got worse from there. I'm guessing in retrospect that my "If you don't want to be reasonable then I'll just go now" line wasn't the best. After being told to, I figure that's pretty much that.

All in all, a lucky escape from a mental cow. Funny thing was, I bumped into an ex of hers yesterday in the pub. She'd done the same thing to him. So even if I was the dumpee, sometimes it does in fact do you a massive favour in the long run.
(The Luggage is haunted..., Thu 3 Jan 2013, 12:52, 13 replies)

lol
gutted
( The Mock TurtIe ™ --- Thinks you are a cunt, on, Thu 3 Jan 2013, 18:39, closed)