I'd save the money and do it in church
That way, at least the church can benefit from any donations from the congregation, and put it towards roof repairs etc. A lot of churches are falling into disrepair because weddings are no longer held in them as often; this means that they cannot afford to carry out essential repairs, and are allowed to fall derelict, or are deconsecrated and turned into a luxury flat development. Where does money from a civil service go to, out of interest?
(The Empress it seems you CAN polish a turd!, Tue 15 Jul 2008, 11:45, Reply)