I went through a similar thing
Only quicker, without marriage. Dave Gilpin really is a truly horrible man.
(piston_broke Actually thinks Supermatt is a decent bloke., Wed 16 Oct 2013, 16:20, 1 reply)

yes I was particularly slow to realise I was being foolish
I think marriage had something to do with it - you can easily end up holding each other back from developing. Especially in that kind of situation
(teasus likes tea, Wed 16 Oct 2013, 17:05, closed)

In certain religious circles
I've noticed a lot of the activities seem to centre around reinforcement of the idea of there being a god and so forth, with cell groups and the like. Perhaps marriage is a little like this? Then again, I've never been married so I wouldn't know. That said, once I got away from the cell groups, university societies and whatnot and into the bar with a lot of beer, it was kind of inevitable really.
(piston_broke Actually thinks Supermatt is a decent bloke., Wed 16 Oct 2013, 17:19, closed)

haha yes
getting into good live music was part of it for me - actually socialising with real people is surprisingly effective in dispelling bullshit!
(teasus likes tea, Wed 16 Oct 2013, 17:23, closed)