Hmmmm
1. We broke up mutually, and you know nothing of the circumstances. There are a number of pretty serious ways in which Maxine treated me 'like poo', which I've not gone into - and woman B became pregnant very quickly after we started seeing each other. Maxine became pregnant on the last occasion we slept together before we broke up - we were both devastated when we broke up. All I did was launch into a rebound relationship with a nutter, whilst I was still coming to terms with it all. You don't know what you're talking about here, I'm afraid.

2. you haven't read my post properly: I was told by woman B she was sterile (and I had STD tests before sleeping with her which you weren't to know), and Maxine became pregnant through coil failure - the coil, to my knowlege, being a method of contraception. And no, I wasn't sleeping with both women at the same time.

3. Read my edit 2 (14:07 post) when I said 'I told her it would ruin my life' I meant it figuratively, I just told her about the abusive situation I was in (EDIT: and I was glassed just for talking to her). I told Maxine I'd suppport whatever decision she chose to make no matter what. She already has a 14 year old son; her future is just likely to be childless with me.

Sorry to hear of your friend's loss. I wish to God Maxine hadn't terminated to be honest - given the choice she'd be the mother of my child as she is 100% amazing.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 6 Oct 2008, 16:52, 1 reply)

*apologises*
You're right, I don't know enough about your circumstances, sorry
(G-Lo, Mon 6 Oct 2008, 17:46, closed)