I don't think many people go to clubs expecting to find 'the one'
Whenever I've gone clubbing (not such a common occurrence these days, but I did go last year once or twice) it's more about going out for a laugh and a dance with my girlfriends. It does happen that we'll get approached by men and my response is always to be friendly - if asked to dance I will every time - that's good manners. If offered a drink I will generally turn it down - to my mind that implies more than I'm prepared to give when I'm out with the girls.

I think it's more likely that people will meet potential partners doing some sort of activity or shared interest - a sport or something similar. Away from the whole pub/club atmosphere everyone has the opportunity to behave normally.
( chickenlady b3ta's very own Elizabeth Taylor, Mon 14 Apr 2008, 23:55, Reply)