More the dumpee in fact
Except I'm not sure I've even been dumped....

Mr B did actually dump me just after Christmas, as he still had feelings for his wife, apparently.
Eventually he came back and all was well. For a bit.
After a few weeks of him removing affection, not talking about much and just generally being a bit 'odd', I started to get somewhat suspicious.
All I got was 'my head's a mess this divorce is stressful' sort of thing.
Two weeks ago he starts sending the 'I need to sort my head out and be by myself for a bit' texts, followed by the classic (and crap) 'it's not you it's me' line.
It's at this point I got very very annoyed at not being given a straight 'you're dumped'
Left him to it for a few days and this week I got more of the 'I don't feel the same way, I need to think of myself and my future' lines.
'That's it' I thought, 'I'm definitely dumped now', especially after my rant about him not telling me to my face and doing it by text. Again.
Upset? Yes. but there's no way I can compete with his feelings for his ex wife, even though he hates her.....
So my mindset is defulating to 'single' and I'm out on the lash tonight as it's someone's leaving do, and I will be pinching men's arses and behaving like a dirty old woman that I am....
Except, I've just had a text from him, first time in a few days and that bastion of social crappiness, Facebitch tells me he is still in a 'complicated' relationship with me.....

So maybe I've not been dumped at all

I'm confused.
(Beklet is inexplicably angry, Fri 6 Jun 2008, 11:19, 6 replies)

Believe it or not
I'm a bloke who's going to be going through something similar very shorty. I've you're a bird and looking for a relationship of "I do like you, it's complicated" then Gaz me for fun and frollicks :D

Seriously, you're better off just telling him to bugger off and sort his life out and get on with yours hun :)
( Jeccius Steam Borderlands 2 junkie, Fri 6 Jun 2008, 11:23, closed)

I'm
inclined ot agree, this guy sounds like he wants a bit of both and you need space yourself mate.

Although the 'It's not you it's me line' is far better than the 'It's not me it's you line'?
(Fuckarma was masturbating into your handbag, Fri 6 Jun 2008, 11:43, closed)

Ha ha so true
Indeed he's definitely messed up. Shame, he's a nice bloke and rather talented too but he can't keep changing his mind like that!

No matter, I'm off out tonight to behave like a tart (I have plenty of male friends who have perfected the art so I'll look like an angel compared to them) and drink much JD, and have a rather lovely time.

Hopefully he won't come out that would put rather a dampener on things ;)
(Beklet is inexplicably angry, Fri 6 Jun 2008, 11:46, closed)

Fuckarma
If it was me, I'd understand - I have many a character fault and am inclined to agree I'm poo at relationships in general, but when it's not my fault, I can't do much about it! :D
(Beklet is inexplicably angry, Fri 6 Jun 2008, 11:50, closed)

Absolutely, positively do not EVER get involved with married people.
It took me 2 years to even think about getting over a married lady who seriously messed with my head, my heart, and my trousers for a long time.
( Bert Monkeysex is waiting for the mods to delete him, Fri 6 Jun 2008, 13:08, closed)

^^this
i've had 2 husbands, neither of them was mine.
nothing but sex and trouble.
( Smash Monkey lowering the tone of the whole internet, Fri 6 Jun 2008, 13:26, closed)