What's the hardest you've tried to get dumped?Groovypoodle writes, "My mate once told his girlfriend that he didn't think it was working only for her to laugh and tell him he was hilarious. Saying she was 'too weird' and 'slightly violent' and that he didn't like her was equally hilarious. Ripping off her wing mirror, throwing it through the windscreen
and storming off in a huff merely generated an apology from her a week later..."
Just how hard have you had to work to get someone to take the hint and stay dumped?
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chthonic, Thu 5 Jun 2008, 10:33)
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I've been in a similar situationI moved in with my ex after three months of fun whirlwind dating as my flatmate and I hated our other flatmate, then this amazing cheap but gorgeous flat came up so we all moved in together. We became way too used to each other too soon and were soon like an old married couple as well. It lasted almost five years, but really should have ended after three as there was no spark anymore.
He ended up staying in the spare room as it didn't feel right both of us sharing a bed anymore, then three months later I moved back with my parents as I couldn't afford my own place. We spoke on the phone a lot over the next few months and became really good friends again, but we don't see each other as we tried that and it just felt weird.
If I were in your situation I would sit her down and ask her what she wants from life, does she really want to be there and ask how you can help her to get where she wants to be. Doesn't have to be financially, just as a friend, but I don't think it's healthy for either of you living together anymore.
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fuck shit up the best you never had, Fri 6 Jun 2008, 11:37,
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