What's the hardest you've tried to get dumped?Groovypoodle writes, "My mate once told his girlfriend that he didn't think it was working only for her to laugh and tell him he was hilarious. Saying she was 'too weird' and 'slightly violent' and that he didn't like her was equally hilarious. Ripping off her wing mirror, throwing it through the windscreen
and storming off in a huff merely generated an apology from her a week later..."
Just how hard have you had to work to get someone to take the hint and stay dumped?
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chthonic, Thu 5 Jun 2008, 10:33)
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Not the way I usually behave at all....I'm 26 and have had 3 'proper' relationships (where the L word was mentioned in both directions and it looked like there was a future).
The second of these relationships was a year long head-fuck that left me in a bit of a mess. She cheated on me, she put me down all the time, got me to arrange to move 400 miles away then rang me on the day of my Grandma's funeral to say she wasn't coming up as planned. The laughing and pleading from one of our mutual friends for her to come back to bed should have been enough but I was stupid and young lol.
Anyway 2 days later she dumps me by text. Nice.
This led to me not wanting to be with anyone for a while, but we all have needs so after a few months I hooked up with someone I'd been chatting to online for a while. We got on really well and I thought we'd have some fun. Within a month she was asking me to marry her and telling all my friends that we were going to be together forever.
So, as I'm soft and had just come out of a very damaging relationship I didn't want to hurt her. We had 'the talk' which led to her crying and saying she couldn't live without me. I went to stay with a friend for a few days, and she rang me 10 times a day obsessing about how I was cheating on her. WTF? We weren't together anymore FFS (me and the friend became more than friends very briefly after a lot of alcohol but I wasn't cheating).
I tried ignoring her, which didn't work. I tried being blunt with her, which didn't work.
Fast forward a month of ignoring her calls as much as possible and trying to be civil when I could ignore her no longer, she came up to my home town without me knowing on my birthday (to surprise me apparently, well yeah that worked!), introduced herself to all my friends as my girlfriend and was generally annoying.
I didn't want to leave her in a strange city with nowhere to stay, so I took her to a hotel, gave her the one last time for old time's sake, and dumped her with no uncertainty that we were over the next morning.
Cruel I know, but I tried the nice way.
(, Sat 7 Jun 2008, 18:49, Reply)
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