Racist grandparents
It Came From Planet Aylia says: "My husband's mad Auntie Joan accused the man seven doors down of stealing her milk as he was the first black neighbour she had. She doesn't even get her milk delivered." Tell us about casual racism from oldies.
Thanks to Brayn Dedd who suggested this too
( , Thu 27 Oct 2011, 11:54)
It Came From Planet Aylia says: "My husband's mad Auntie Joan accused the man seven doors down of stealing her milk as he was the first black neighbour she had. She doesn't even get her milk delivered." Tell us about casual racism from oldies.
Thanks to Brayn Dedd who suggested this too
( , Thu 27 Oct 2011, 11:54)
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just a point
Wog box was never a acceptable term. I am mixed race and British and grew up in the 70's and 80's (similar age to you) and what was thought to be acceptable actually hurt and upset. Wog has always hurt, no one ever called me a wog with good intentions.
Back then I used to take the often and common racist abuse on the chin - especially when half my friends were leveling it at me. Only when I started to react and push back did it stop, when my friends realised that it was hurtful they stopped.
( , Fri 28 Oct 2011, 19:20, 1 reply)
Wog box was never a acceptable term. I am mixed race and British and grew up in the 70's and 80's (similar age to you) and what was thought to be acceptable actually hurt and upset. Wog has always hurt, no one ever called me a wog with good intentions.
Back then I used to take the often and common racist abuse on the chin - especially when half my friends were leveling it at me. Only when I started to react and push back did it stop, when my friends realised that it was hurtful they stopped.
( , Fri 28 Oct 2011, 19:20, 1 reply)
"Acceptable"
With hindsight, "acceptable" was perhaps the wrong choice of word. "Accepted" - although unfortunate - is probably a more accurate reflection of the national psyche at the time.
Bear in mind that this was a time when Bernard Manning and Jim Davidson were at the peaks of their careers and the latter was on prime time TV. Now both were racist cunts but their "humour" was fairly mainstream. Then there was Alf Garnett, Spike Milligan and a whole host of others.
I guess we're talking about a time when Britain was (wrongly) less sensitive and before we grew up.
I was never my intention to offend anyone at the time, nor with the re-telling of the story but if I have offended you in any way, I apologise unreservedly.
( , Tue 1 Nov 2011, 11:23, closed)
With hindsight, "acceptable" was perhaps the wrong choice of word. "Accepted" - although unfortunate - is probably a more accurate reflection of the national psyche at the time.
Bear in mind that this was a time when Bernard Manning and Jim Davidson were at the peaks of their careers and the latter was on prime time TV. Now both were racist cunts but their "humour" was fairly mainstream. Then there was Alf Garnett, Spike Milligan and a whole host of others.
I guess we're talking about a time when Britain was (wrongly) less sensitive and before we grew up.
I was never my intention to offend anyone at the time, nor with the re-telling of the story but if I have offended you in any way, I apologise unreservedly.
( , Tue 1 Nov 2011, 11:23, closed)
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