It's OK
I understand what you are saying, it's just that those that are scared of the power of their own arsehole might not!

Prostate massage - keyword here: "gently". Not stabbing at it like trying to poke a fire. Oh, and ladies, long blood red talons look great, but FFS, they will lacerate a balloon knot. I imagine those fake ones might work loose in certain situations? Eeeew, better to just trim one nicely! Very nice, Peter North-style cumshots ensue.

Prostate milking - a skilled and patient practitioner can milk the cum out without any of that nasty orgasm business, working it like a tube of toothpaste. It just makes me feel like I'm busting for a piss!

Prostate orgasm - Apparently achievable, but like anything else, you have to work at it. Like anything donut-related, relaxation is the key (and loadsa lube). Not something I've experienced, but then usually my mind is on whatever other delights the Domme is inflicting on me. I guess you have to be "in the zone", not just "in the bum". I dare say it won't stop her trying, bless her!

Eeeh, the wonders of the Chocolate Starfish! Why would anyone not want to get the most pleasure out of their body, beats me?

Oh, and I'm told the Aneros Helix is a pretty good device, and doesn't look like something Sly Stallone uses to build his wrist up , like that other thing.
(Rsoles, Thu 17 May 2012, 22:25, 1 reply)

I had to go look that up, am familiar with said device but evidently not the name!
I don't think they work meself, but each to their own, however, I have seen amazing results from e stim, but you need the ridiculously expensive ones capable of inducing push-button orgasms, which often cost in the hundreds, all the cheap ones are nothing more than glorified redressed tens machines and useless for inducing pleasure or orgasms, just good at muscle stim and pain, but the ones with waves and pulses, well, it still takes an expert to operate it for you as it needs expert timing tuned to the recipients responses, and when a person gets close to an orgasm they become incapable of controlling it themselves anymore, but it's the only way I know of that can induce a proper internal orgasm that has nothing to do with your cock, anal sex, dildos or a fucking action of any description.

It's still not easy tho, and I'm not kidding, they're ridiculously expensive items for what you actually get for your money.
( ..wil, Thu 17 May 2012, 22:45, closed)

Interestingly enough,
this very afternoon, a Domme I sometimes play with called and told me she'd got some new electro-sounds (and she wasn't talking about Gary fucking Numan). She reckons she can induce climax with one electrode on the urethral sound and the other up the Gary Glitter. Time will tell (and quite possibly not with me involved. I'm very wary when it comes to electrics, I spend my days trying not to get electric shocks and the noise Violet Wands make scare the shit out of me. It's a new E-stim type box of tricks though, not some 1920s Bakelite device, so I might be persuaded...)
(Rsoles, Fri 18 May 2012, 19:47, closed)

As a general rule
If it involves electrodes or other means of direct to skin electro stim and plugs directly into the wall, avoid, but batteries, nary a chance of any real danger there.

I agree tho, them Violet Wands, not inclined to try.
( ..wil, Fri 18 May 2012, 21:50, closed)