I would say the odds of him
having £100,000, let alone actually giving it to you, are slight to the say the least. It's also, like all round numbers, a suspicious sum. Why not £67,765 ? People who quote such sums have plucked numbers out of the air, and the numbers have little basis with reality.

It's more likely a carrot to get you to resume contact. Whether you want to or not is up to you, however the money shouldn't be part of the issue. Either you forgive him and genuinely want to make contact, or you don't and you "move on".

If the money did exist and you took it, you'd be letting him back into your life as he'd have a hold over you for having given it. Consider carefully if you want him to have that leverage over you for the rest of your / his life...
( I_Was_Mordred, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 12:13, Reply)