This especially
"If you give a poor man money, you don't ask him to change his clothes or the way he prays."
(Naughty Tortoise, Mon 4 Jul 2005, 19:22, archived)

no
but maybe to dance a little
(thisismyclone, Mon 4 Jul 2005, 19:27, archived)

Oh well yes
'dancing for charity' is a tautology

char·i·ty (chr'-t) pronunciation
n., pl. -ties.

1. Provision of help or relief to the poor in exchange for a dance
2. Something given to help the needy in exchange for a dance
(Naughty Tortoise, Mon 4 Jul 2005, 19:28, archived)

On a more personal note,
I was talking about making a homeless old man give me a lap-dance outside Kwik Save.
(thisismyclone, Mon 4 Jul 2005, 19:33, archived)