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mess up your hair in a playful/non-sexual way

actually I guess tousle could be used in a sexual way but that's not how I'm using it.
( Funtastic Pony Magic, Mon 23 Aug 2004, 12:25, archived)

ok you can do that
i thought it might of meant set fire to my hair and leave me to burn to death
( homonk, Mon 23 Aug 2004, 12:31, archived)