A tale of woe
Or: how my (now) ex-girlfriend insists that using a racist term is OK when applied with a certain meaning.

Several days ago her and I were having a conversation. I mentioned why I was looking to quit EVE (for reasons I won't go into here). This is as the conversation was ending. It went something like this:

Her: Or, he could just be shot. Like the n****r in office.
Me: What.
Her: Nothin, I don't get in a tizzy over a game. XD
Me: Did you just call Obama a n****r?
Her: Yes, yes I did.
Me: And you meant it?
Her: Mmmhm.
Me: Goodbye.
Her: Ta ta

And my ex decided to just be snippy the following day.

Her: Slang: Extremely Disparaging and Offensive . a person of any race or origin regarded as contemptible, inferior, ignorant, etc.
Her: Just an FYI.... Since I'm racist.
Her: I wish you the best, however.

Then she signed off.

And it carried onto text messages since she obviously didn't care enough to give me a chance to respond.

Me: You called a black person a n-word. Tell me how I'm supposed to interpret that.
Her: However you wish. He is from the Phillipines, FYI. Not black.
Me: You seem quite opposed to dialogue, so I can only hope that you will consider what you're giving up by walking away. However, if you genuinely do not like black people (or even non-whites) then we have nothing more to say. I do not tolerate racists.
Her: How could I in good conciense be racist? The very people you think I hate love to make a stirr over my name. I dont care for it, and I wouldnt do it to anyone.
Her: Think before you fly off the handle. I was raised in a trailer park. Does that make me white trash? No. I will admit that I hate the president because he is
Her: Terrible at it, and I do believe that he could do better. I also hated bush, for the record.
Me: Hating the president is fine. Hell, I don't like him or Bush, but I don't use the same word to describe him. FYI, he is black. Born in Hawaii, father is Kenyan and mother is Scotch-Irish from Kansas. So you did call a black man the n-word.
Her: Happy to know you know my own stance on what a word means than I do. I am finished with this.

And that's where it ended.

So...loving a hidden racist, my previous ex cheated on me, and it goes back from there to when one of my first girlfriends in highschool broke up with me by almost assaulting me (she was schizophrenic and bipolar).

How deep does this briar patch of psycho bitches go?
(Magus Zeal reloading since, Tue 15 May 2012, 7:47, 14 replies, latest was 12 years ago)

TL;DR
So please kill yourself.
( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 15 May 2012, 7:52, Reply)

Normally I would delve into my depths and come out with some sort of semi-caring, responsible and empathetic response.
Today however, I really just don't give a fuck. So she's a racist twat. Who cares. Move on and find one who isn't so buckets of crazy.
(Poppet some assembly required., Tue 15 May 2012, 8:12, Reply)

There's off topic and then there's what the fuck is this doing here?

( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 15 May 2012, 8:14, Reply)

I think I'll post an alternative thread.

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 15 May 2012, 8:14, Reply)

You should delete this post. It's fucking shit.

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 15 May 2012, 8:14, Reply)

Do you wake up angry?

( wanderlust, Tue 15 May 2012, 8:19, Reply)

Alright Lusty?
No, I woke up in a good mood, it's just that this is a shit post.
( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 15 May 2012, 8:38, Reply)

no he just lets him sleep whyile he wanks up his back
LOL
(Quintno EXPERIMENT RUINED CANCELLED, LEFT 4EVER, Tue 15 May 2012, 9:09, Reply)

Problem 1: your ex is racist.
Problem 2: you seem to hate women. They hate you back though, so that's okay.

DYAAKY.
( crackhouseceilidhband Fuck off back to Mumsnet, Tue 15 May 2012, 8:34, Reply)

i tried reading all of this, i hope you appreciate that

(Quintno EXPERIMENT RUINED CANCELLED, LEFT 4EVER, Tue 15 May 2012, 9:09, Reply)

Shut up, nigger.

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 15 May 2012, 9:45, Reply)

Thats it you racist, we're through!

( Peej, Tue 15 May 2012, 10:25, Reply)

Get to fuck

( SteveFrench Cardio is for homo's. do you even lift bro?, Tue 15 May 2012, 9:46, Reply)

I read it all
She's quite clearly not racist, she is however very stupid and you are better off without her.
( Peej, Tue 15 May 2012, 10:24, Reply)