Brother came around going through all the bills and such letting people knowgetting some of the debts cancelled and tracking down any payments due to us (I still use 'us' it's comforting still) The report from the Coroner came back and he died of a Heart Failure caused by reduced blood flow which in turn was caused by artery disease from smoking and diabetitis so it's small comfort that there wasn't any action I could have taken to prevent it and a bigger comfort to know he died peacefully without any pain at all.
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Wed 17 Aug 2011, 13:54,
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Aw...well that's good to know, hope it helps you a bit to know that, I was worried you were gonna blame yourself entirely for it, not a good path to take, was worried for you.
Yes now the long long road of all the crappy pissy paper chases and legalities, lots of emails and letters and phone calls, I've yet to go thru this whole thing myself but have seen others do so, some seem to find it comforting to go thru all their other half's stuff aftwerwards, others not so at all, may we find you in the former category n I hope it isn't too painful or protracted.
(Yes now the long long road of all the crappy pissy paper chases and legalities, lots of emails and letters and phone calls, I've yet to go thru this whole thing myself but have seen others do so, some seem to find it comforting to go thru all their other half's stuff aftwerwards, others not so at all, may we find you in the former category n I hope it isn't too painful or protracted.
..wil,
Wed 17 Aug 2011, 14:02,
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Yes all the phoning around sending off letter with copies of the death certificate isn't my field of expertiseI rather be getting drunk, playing Xbox and making After Effects videos especially as this is my 2 weeks holiday from work but now it's nose to the grindstone to sort through this stuff - not that I'm trying to be flippant about it.
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Wed 17 Aug 2011, 14:07,
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In some ways better to have 2 weeks off than notbut no I appreciate what you are saying, not exactly how you planned it, to say the least.
Many many hugs darlin, many as you need, XXXXXXX
(Many many hugs darlin, many as you need, XXXXXXX
..wil,
Wed 17 Aug 2011, 14:10,
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Thanks, Wil. Eleventy hugs with surfice for the moment ;)
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Wed 17 Aug 2011, 14:16,
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