
correct me if i'm wrong, but he sounds like he's got a lot of bad shit going on at the moment. that is to say, he still cares for you, but he's had to put you to the back of his mind (undoubtedly not without pain) in order to deal with it. if you love him, be patient. if you can't get your money back for the flight, arrange a b3ta pissup ;)
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Mon 24 Feb 2003, 2:42,
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but I know, from the past, that having me there would make him feel better, not worse. If I can't see him I can't bear the thought of going to england at all right now. I'm looking at chaning my trip to march, regardless.
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Mon 24 Feb 2003, 2:47,
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if i was he, i would want the time my girlfriend was visiting to be worry-free and workless. not to spend it all worrying and making her wait.
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Mon 24 Feb 2003, 2:59,
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the giraffe will look over you =)
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Mon 24 Feb 2003, 3:03,
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has an untreated paranoid personality problem
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