From the details I do knowhe's probably just panicked about you comming over, cos that would involve commitment & then there's the whole 'personal space' bit. When he sees you in the US, he knows he's always got the UK to retreat to, Once you are on his turf its a whole different matter...
Gina (a mate of mine) has a boyfriend who is happy for her to meet his friends, family etc but he will not take her to a football match, cos that's his private thing, he'll get over it. The best thing to do is to talk it over (but try not to sound accusative cos he'll get all defensive & sulky).
(Gina (a mate of mine) has a boyfriend who is happy for her to meet his friends, family etc but he will not take her to a football match, cos that's his private thing, he'll get over it. The best thing to do is to talk it over (but try not to sound accusative cos he'll get all defensive & sulky).
thirdman Ia! Ia! R'lyeh Cthulhu ftagn! Ia! Ia! Mglui nafl,
Mon 24 Feb 2003, 9:10,
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orthere is always stabbing.
yes, stabbing would be fun.
or there are lots of nice guns within reach if I could get him over here somehow...
you are probably right. I was very rational when I responded to his email. Now is when all the crazy comes out. As I said earlier, if something (even something minor) happened to his sis, he would not think twice about pushing me away if he thought giving her all his attention would help her. If he has been playing me this whole time, he has done a splendid job. I've just realised: I don't know the name of the place he works. AND I don't have a working telephone number for him. ARGH. Stabbing is definately the best idea.
(yes, stabbing would be fun.
or there are lots of nice guns within reach if I could get him over here somehow...
you are probably right. I was very rational when I responded to his email. Now is when all the crazy comes out. As I said earlier, if something (even something minor) happened to his sis, he would not think twice about pushing me away if he thought giving her all his attention would help her. If he has been playing me this whole time, he has done a splendid job. I've just realised: I don't know the name of the place he works. AND I don't have a working telephone number for him. ARGH. Stabbing is definately the best idea.
gracielou,
Mon 24 Feb 2003, 9:17,
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You have his address in UK?(
thirdman Ia! Ia! R'lyeh Cthulhu ftagn! Ia! Ia! Mglui nafl,
Mon 24 Feb 2003, 9:24,
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Oh GodWhat have I created!
;)
(;)
thirdman Ia! Ia! R'lyeh Cthulhu ftagn! Ia! Ia! Mglui nafl,
Mon 24 Feb 2003, 9:41,
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There's having your ownprivate space, be it football or whatever, but then there's ruling out an entire country as your personal space.
Which is arse.
(Which is arse.
missing,
Mon 24 Feb 2003, 9:30,
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