*hugs* to gracie,my twopenniesworth:
He's being an arse. He knows he's being an arse. However, if you're lucky, at some stage he might *apologise* for being an arse.
But, saying that, however much you adore him your happiness shouldn't be entirely dependant on him (easier to say than do I know) so plan your trip for May, which gives you something to look forward to even if you saw your friends instead. Then, given that you are a few thousand miles away, doing something fab in the US instead! Plan it for when you were meant to be here and enlist all your friends to help. Then at least when he asks what you did you can say 'well I chopped all my hair off and dyed it pink and bought an entirely new wardrobe and got a facial and blew all my friends money :)'
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Mon 24 Feb 2003, 10:10,
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He's being an arse. He knows he's being an arse. However, if you're lucky, at some stage he might *apologise* for being an arse.
But, saying that, however much you adore him your happiness shouldn't be entirely dependant on him (easier to say than do I know) so plan your trip for May, which gives you something to look forward to even if you saw your friends instead. Then, given that you are a few thousand miles away, doing something fab in the US instead! Plan it for when you were meant to be here and enlist all your friends to help. Then at least when he asks what you did you can say 'well I chopped all my hair off and dyed it pink and bought an entirely new wardrobe and got a facial and blew all my friends money :)'
