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was what cause me to be divorced after 7 years of marriage. Both my wife and I were guilty of cultivating relationships that never should have been.
It took years to sort out the trust issues and whilst we got over it, remarried and started a family it has been very, very hard work.
All I can say to you, from the benefit of hindsight is that you need to be very careful in what you do and should consider all the implications before proceeding.
You will tell your wife lies regardless of what you believe now but don't make the mistake of trying to justify any indiscretion by telling lies to yourself. Because you will want to do that too.
Sorry that was a bit serious.
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Tue 7 Apr 2009, 13:01,
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It took years to sort out the trust issues and whilst we got over it, remarried and started a family it has been very, very hard work.
All I can say to you, from the benefit of hindsight is that you need to be very careful in what you do and should consider all the implications before proceeding.
You will tell your wife lies regardless of what you believe now but don't make the mistake of trying to justify any indiscretion by telling lies to yourself. Because you will want to do that too.
Sorry that was a bit serious.
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Unless the "too many texts thing" has pissed her off, but they were just a wind up.Which she should know!!
We will never get together , cos she is gay.
I've told her i fancy her,but would never make a move.
She told me If I did, she'd deck me twice...
Once for making a move and again for cheating on my wife.
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We will never get together , cos she is gay.
I've told her i fancy her,but would never make a move.
She told me If I did, she'd deck me twice...
Once for making a move and again for cheating on my wife.
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And considered deleting this personal info. But I think it's good advice for anyone.
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I could never go out with a straight girl, for the same reason!
Lesbo's FTW!
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Tue 7 Apr 2009, 13:16,
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Lesbo's FTW!