Sad stuff Col. Sorry for your loss. Truly.
Obvs...funerals are also seen as for the living and 'left behind' and if that's really how she needs to take comfort and process her grief then it's tricky to contest. Some folks need to be more 'obviously expressive' about their grief (and might.. maybe... seem to others to be oblivious or even attention seeking / all about them ) but that's their thing, even if they truly are in actuality, somewhat self centred... ('look at me, I'm suffering more than you' so to speak) but in my little experience, the main folks are in their own dazed bubble and those that ain't, already know / are understanding of all the personalities involved.
Sorry to all if this sounds eggsucking or wayward. Just an opinion from personal experience and no way gospel. However it pans out, know that you will get through this.
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unclepills Sixty 25th of Decembers, Wed 2 Jan 2019, 12:01,
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