I don't doubt that you're right, but I think when you want to see change all the more reason to keep your attacks justifiable and proportionate, and make sure your targets are legitimate ones
I think one of the reason the MeToo movement ran out of steam, and you don't see #metoo hashtags anymore, was that was a growing sense that it had become unfair, when someone like azis ansari who made a girl uncomfortable on a date was treated with equal ferocity as someone accused of coercive rapes and had his career halted. If, in peoples rush to judgement, it turns out this guy did say to the cops "fuck you, I'm getting my gun" as was alleged, this over the top condemnation is only going to give ammunition to reactionary forces against it and move reasonable people who might have become allies to the movement to shun it. It still might not make any difference, but that's what I'd advise, and it's generally my advice about other things, especially with millenials. Dont be so quick to judgement and to condemn. Use moral relativity rather than absolutes if you are going to judge. I know it takes more thinking, but do it anyway. Instead of "im going to put this person in racist category" think "what were the specific failings here, what was their intent, how much harm did they do, was it a mistake I would never have made or am I being a fucking hypocrite because it feels good and superior to condemn people?"
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cumquat may will not be commenting further on the allegations, Wed 26 Aug 2020, 16:23,
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