When you add to the mix all the new genders things get even more counter intuitive.
If someone identifies as ‘intersex’ or ‘bigender’ that’s all good and well. But they cannot expect people to know or deduce things like that, and so have no right to be upset when they don’t. They can tell people, and out of courtesy people should use their chosen pronouns, but that’s all it is, a courtesy. The assertion that it’s a fact is inane and incorrect. If there is such a thing as society, we ought to try and belong to it in some way, not belligerently keep screeching ‘I am different! Respect me! Failure to do so is evil!’
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Prufrock Lucifer, son of the morning!, Sun 8 Aug 2021, 14:58,
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