I always think this one is a bit tricky
On the one hand I agree - it's not nice to be seen only for your breasts, especially if it's difficult to hide them.

The flipside is that many people have something that people target when they'd rather the attention was on something else, and that at least you do have something that reliably attracts people.

True, many of the people attracted are sleazeballs, but the first impression most people have is visual, as personality does not shine out as easily. I personally don't think it's possible to entirely separate sexual and intellectual attraction - perhaps the breasts are a draw, or a distraction, but they might like your mind as well.

Or, in short, having something like a big pair of breasts gets you off the starting block. Without that, you're not even at the start.

Touching and commenting isn't fair, though. Can't you tell them to fuck off, or go somewhere with nicer people?
(EssY, Fri 7 May 2010, 15:50, Reply)