No, I'm not saying "forget it"
in the slightest. And what happened to me for 8 years *was* a major factor in my development. Although a lot of people have had it a lot worse.

The point I was trying to make is that the important thing is to deal with the issue, not major on thoughts of revenge or hatred to those that caused it. Getting revenge is not going to take away the pain; wishing harm on others who have caused you harm - what's the point ?

"An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind" - Mahatma Ghandi.

It's all about not sinking down to their level. And not letting them cause you pain in the present by being wrapped up a negative relationship with them. Letting go, moving on, finding peace. You won't find peace if you're wishing evil on others - in my opinion.
( I_Was_Mordred, Mon 18 May 2009, 12:30, Reply)