I'm aware
that for you it’s not about what or who he is, but what he did when you were growing up, but all the same I’d hate to be judged entirely on my actions as a child/teen/whatever, as I’m sure most of us would.

I’m not throwing brownie points at your brother, as there’s just no way I could relate to your experience. It’s just the opinion that sprang to mind.
( Rookie You'll have to speak up, I'm wearing a towel, Thu 21 May 2009, 9:07, Reply)