There's a big difference between fantasy and reality
Which your original point was, I think, refering more to fantasy, rather than the rather drab real world we live in. It's easy to class a pretty girl a munter because you know you wouldn't have a chance, and it looks big and clever. It's another thing to be in the real world interacting with ladies you might have a chance with.
Mick Jagger; "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with"
( Blind Meach Cautiously optimistic, Wed 21 Oct 2009, 16:41, 1 reply)

I thought my original point was clear
dont suggest someone who is clearly beautiful (at least in the physical sense) is ugly simply because you dont like them, their work, their politics or even their personality.

i'ts daft and is more than slightly tinged with 'bitter'

the fantasy reality aspect is irrelevant. ive worked with models who couldnt be more down to earth and approachable - others who were miserable shallow bitches prowling around after footballers - both stunningly beautiful. Ive had a Miss World runner up fold her exceptionally long legs into my car* then laugh and joke with me like a plumber.

*sadly not a honda civic but a honda s2000
( spimf ™ is whoever you want him to be, Wed 21 Oct 2009, 16:53, closed)

Ah,
ok, I'm only trying to say beauty is not the same as being attracted to. I actually agree with you on that point, people do exactly that. That's the hypocrasy showing through them.
It's probably that I am so stunningly handsome no-one will ever live up to my expectations.

I remain suitably chastised though. Choosy rather than bitter I would say.

The fantasy/reality thing, which out of the two examples in the edit did you actually find yourself attracted to? Not just an I would moment?
( Blind Meach Cautiously optimistic, Wed 21 Oct 2009, 17:13, closed)

definitely the s2000
i've had 4 identical to this
( spimf ™ is whoever you want him to be, Wed 21 Oct 2009, 17:18, closed)

Superb!
Priorities all present and correct I see.
( Blind Meach Cautiously optimistic, Wed 21 Oct 2009, 17:23, closed)