Some of you may think me naive
But what darras says is true - first marriage was a mistake and I was simply the catalyst for ending it. From first kiss to moving in together took 2 months, and we have not spent a night apart since July 2006 (which is actually a bit sad!)

I concur in a general sense with the "once a cheat always a cheat" philosophy, I would never do it and it would be over toot sweet if anyone did it to me, but to totally contradict myself, I cheated (only a kiss!) on an ex, and it was the act of cheating that made me realise things had gone tits up with that partnership, so we split up. I think there's a difference between serial cheaters and cheating being a catalyst for ending a relationship that is already dead.

Just my twopenn'orth!
(SnowmanSnails, Thu 11 Dec 2008, 12:30, Reply)